New Release: Tor Browser 8.5.1

am i the only one that is bothered by tor now collecting my info and store it and calling me by my real name
—tuffy333294

Chances are it has nothing to do with Tor because Tor would not know your name.Tor collects privacy-aware logs for download statistics but does not collect or publish your real name (or much else about users). Either you've given your real name to a site in the past, or they're sharing your information.
Suggestions:

• Use fake names, or no names, wherever possible. Avoid giving information about yourself anywhere you can. Tor Browser does not remove any information you give online
• Use new identities for different online personas. For example: log into Twitter, log out of Twitter when done, change identity, log into Instagram

i looked to try and opt out but was never able to find where to opt out

There does not seem to be any opt-out, but you don't need to opt-out to remain anonymous. The Tor Metrics logging improves privacy and security, as security expert Bruce Schneier explains: "...With good network metrics, you can look back for indicators and anomalies at the time a privacy issue was reported. You can also extrapolate and look forward to prevent related issues in the future..."

hum sounds like google to me im not sure i will be useing tor anymore myself dont like the idea of someone tracking what i do on the net so much for being annomus i guess

The nice thing about Tor technology is that you can benefit from its security even when you don't trust the Tor Project, because the Tor Project itself cannot read your Tor traffic.In the end it's your decision to use or not to use Tor. EFF maintains a privacy section and tool guides. In addition, there are other dark web technologies, like I2P.